Jia shared the 4 rules from the late Master Sheng Yen of the Dharma Drum Mountain:
When you wish for something, ask yourself these four
questions: Is it needed? Is it wanted? Is it obtainable?
Is it advisable?
The four attitudes to take towards others: grateful,
thankful, transforming, and inspiring.
The four keys to good fortune: know what you are
blessed with, cherish it, help it grow, and plant seeds
for future blessings.
The four steps in dealing with any problem: face it,
accept it, deal with it, let it go.