Ann shared a profound reading from “Seeds for a Boundless Life: Zen Teachings from the Heart” by Blanche Hartman, a respected Zen teacher and former abbess at the San Francisco Zen Center. The passage she chose resonated deeply with the group, emphasizing the idea that we are perfect just as we are and that everything we have is a gift from others.
Blanche Hartman recounted her initial skepticism when she first heard her teacher, Suzuki Roshi, say, “You are perfect, just as you are.” Over time, she came to understand that this perfection isn’t about being flawless but about recognizing our inherent completeness and the interconnectedness of all things. This realization challenges the common conditioning that makes us feel inadequate and constantly striving for more.
Ann reflected on how easy it is to fall into the trap of thinking there’s something wrong with us or our circumstances. She shared a personal anecdote about judging a house’s color and realizing how often we think, “If only this were different, my life would be perfect.” This mindset overlooks the fundamental truth that life, with all its imperfections, is a gift shaped by the kindness and contributions of others.
The discussion then opened up to the group, exploring the duality of accepting oneself as perfect while acknowledging the imperfections and challenges of life. One participant, Michael, emphasized the importance of owning where we are at any given moment, recognizing that we are perfect now and will be perfect tomorrow, despite any changes.
Tingting highlighted the power of accepting reality as it is, even when it doesn’t align with our desires. This acceptance doesn’t negate the difficulties we face but rather integrates them into a broader understanding of life’s gifts and the support we receive from others.
The session concluded with a sense of gratitude and a reminder of the interconnectedness that defines our existence. As Ann beautifully put it, “How lucky we are. We can pay attention to the fact that we are perfect the way we are, and it is because of other people.”
In the spirit of Zen, this reflection encourages us to embrace our inherent perfection, appreciate the contributions of others, and find peace in the present moment.
Hakone Zendo 